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Call for Submissions: Sex in NYC

Sex in New York City: Tales of Pleasure and Perversity in the Big Apple
Editor: Ralph Greco, Jr.
Publisher:  Sizzler Editions
Deadline: April 1, 2012
Payment: $25, paid on publication; First North American Anthology Rights

We are looking for stories from new and established authors celebrating one of the busiest-and sexiest-cities on earth. Pulsating with a vibrancy unlike any other location how can one think about New York City without thinking of the orgasm-like rise of steam shooting-up through manholes, men and women jostling their bodies oh-so-close in the dirty bowels of subway cars, of the bright lights and the limos whisking couples who knows where for God knows what?

Writers who live in or have been to The Big Apple now get their chance to take a big bite out of it in any way they choose, using the full expanse of this amazing city’s locations, from Times Square, to the The Village, to clear across to one of the vibrant ethnic enclaves of neighboring boroughs like Brooklyn of Queens.

Sex in New York City, like all Sizzler Editions, is open to submissions featuring all sexual and gender orientations. We seek stories with whatever kind of sex seems true to NYC…and you. From tender romances to the hardest kinks: a naughty canoodle in Saint Patrick’s Cathedral to a high-class dom/client meet in an upper east-side apartment; everything is permissible just as long as NYC is the backdrop. And the folks populating your tales should be as vibrant and unique as this city they have come to play in.

Guidelines and submission details at:
erotica-readers.com/ERA/AR/Sex_In_New_York_City.htm

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Call for Presenters: Lesbian Sex Mafia in NYC

Call for Presenters

Please circulate widely!
Do you have a kinky skill you’d like to share, a BDSM concept you’d like to teach, or a great idea for a leather panel you’d like to organize and speak on? The Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York City, the oldest continuously running women’s BDSM support and education groups in the country, is actively seeking women & trans folks who are identified with the lesbian community to present for our 2012 workshop calendar. Past topics have included piercing and stapling, M/s and D/s relationships, fisting, sensation play, takedowns, single tails, and more.

We meet monthly on the 3rd Friday at the LGBT Community Center in NYC and would gladly include out of town presenters who will be in town on that date.

If you’d like to present for LSM, simply download the Presenter Guidelines which includes information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation, and fill out the online Presentation Proposal form.

About the Lesbian Sex Mafia

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community, and who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way. We are not a social service agency; however, we are interested in providing information, encouragement and general support. Our principles are few but basic: confidentiality, consensuality, safety and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose. lesbiansexmafia.org for more information.

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Kristin and Danielle of everyoneisgay.com fame mentioned this wheel diagram (which is from Gayle Rubin’s article “Thinking Sex”) when they visited here. Society’s conceptions of “acceptable sex” are placed on the inside— on the outside is “unacceptable sex.” It’s pretty interesting to see visualized the huge number of ways we judge people based on sexual proclivities.

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Kristin and Danielle of everyoneisgay.com fame mentioned this wheel diagram (which is from Gayle Rubin’s article “Thinking Sex”) when they visited here. Society’s conceptions of “acceptable sex” are placed on the inside— on the outside is “unacceptable sex.” It’s pretty interesting to see visualized the huge number of ways we judge people based on sexual proclivities.

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A Love Letter to Femmes - by Sinclair Sexsmith

Maria See put the original call out for the Femmethology literally years ago, and ever since I first saw it I knew I wanted to contribute something to this unique anthology on femme identity. But what? I didn’t feel like I could necessarily speak from a place of authority on What Femme Is, there are hundreds – thousands! – of versions of femme, and no matter what I know about femme or how many femmes I’ve interacted with, I am an observer, a witness of femme, I don’t feel like I create it myself.

So what would I write?

I wrote a few pieces, brainstormed, but nothing I really loved. Nothing really got to the heart of what I was trying to say, which was … what? I wasn’t sure.

But it hit me on the very last day the editors were accepting submissions, and I sat down and wrote this Love Letter in one long sentence, and spent the rest of the day editing and polishing. I’m not going to reproduce the text here (you’ll have to buy the book for that) but I will present you, here, with a recording of me reading the love letter that appears in Visible: A Femmethology Volume Two.

Hope you enjoy it.

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Sex diarists wanted!

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I still need New Yorkers (because it’s for nymag.com) to write sex diaries - you anonymously detail your sex life for a week, get paid $50. Know anyone? Feel free to pass on. Thank you! No requirements except there be some kind of sex going on. Write me here or at sexdiaries at nymag.com for details. Thanks!
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Call for Submissions: Best Sex Writing 2012

Best Sex Writing 2012
Editor: Rachel Kramer Bussel; selections by guest judge Susie Bright
Publisher: Cleis Press in December 2011
Deadline: May 1, 2011 (earlier submissions welcomed!) 
Payment: $100

Editor Rachel Kramer Bussel is looking for personal essays and reportage for inclusion in the 2012 edition of the Cleis Press series Best Sex Writing, which will hit stores in December 2011. Any non-fiction writing covering the topic of sex will be considered. 

I like work that looks at sex in new and unusual ways (see Stacey D’Erasmo’s “Silver-Balling” in Best Sex Writing 2009 for a prime example, as well as “It’s a Shame About Ray” by Kirk Read and “Sexual Outlaw” by Betty Dodson in Best Sex Writing 2010), that challenges us to think about sex and our own sexuality, is thought-provoking and possibly disturbing. I want sex journalism that’s found in the most unexpected places and is as topical as possible. 

No fiction or poetry will be considered.

Previous editions of BSW have featured authors such as Brian Alexander, Violet Blue, Susannah Breslin, Betty Dodson, Stephen Elliott, Gael Greene, Paul Krassner, Judith Levine, Michael Musto, Scott Poulson-Bryant, Mary Roach, Tristan Taormino, Virginia Vitzhum, and others.

Requirements: For reprints, story must have been published (or is slated to be published) between August 1, 2010 and December 31, 2011, online and/or in print (book, magazine, zine or newspaper) in the United States. Original, unpublished work is also welcome.

Authors:
Please send your double-spaced submission (1,500-4,000 words) as a Word document or RTF attachment to bestsexwriting2012 at gmail.com — you may submit a maximum of TWO pieces for consideration. You MUST include your full contact information, a 50-word or less bio, and previous publication details for reprints.

Include your name, email address, mailing address, phone number, and exact publication details (title of publication, date of publication, and any other relevant information). Only send work you own the licensing rights to.

Editors:
Submit up to three submissions from their publication, following the guidelines above. Provide the author’s contact information available upon request.

Email address (for queries and submissions): bestsexwriting2012 at gmail.com
Payment: $100 

Deadline: May 1, 2011 (earlier submissions welcomed and encouraged)
You will receive an email confirming your submission; after that you can expect to hear back from me by August 2011.

Rights bought:
Author hereby grants Editors, during the first term of the United States copyright, and any renewals thereof, in the “Work”:
a. The non-exclusive right to “publish” (i.e. print, publish, and sell) the Work as part of the Book in book and digital form in English in the United States and its territories; and
b. The non-exclusive right to “publish” and license the Work as part of the Book in book and digital form in English in other countries; and
c. The non-exclusive right to license translate and publish the Work as part of the Book in book and digital form in languages other than English in all countries.


Rachel Kramer Bussel
 (rachelkramerbussel.com) is an author, editor, blogger and event organizer. She is Senior Editor at Penthouse Variations, sex columnist for SexIs Magazine, and has edited 38 anthologies, including Gotta Have It, Surrender, Best Bondage Erotica 2011, Orgasmic, Fast Girls, Spanked, Bottoms Up and Best Sex Writing 2008, 2009 and 2010. She hosted In The Flesh Reading Series from 2005-2010 and writes for a variety of publications about sex, dating, books and pop culture.

Susie Bright (susiebright.com) is the author of the national bestsellersFull Exposure and The Sexual State of the Union, as well as The Best American Erotica and Herotica series, which ushered in women’s erotic publishing. She the host of Audible’s In Bed With Susie Bright, the longest-running sex-ed show in the history of broadcasting. She was co-founder and editor of On Our Backs magazine, and was the first journalist to cover erotic cinema and the porn business in the mainstream press. A progenitor of the sex-positive movement, Bright taught the first university course on pornography, and brought lasting sexual influence to her role in films like Bound and The Celluloid Closet. Her latest book is the memoir Big Sex Little Death.

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rkb:

My favorite line? “Um, honey? Passive-aggressiveness is not a turn on.”

And reminder for you and your friends: We need more diarists! Email sexdiaries at nymag.com with your pertinent info and why you want to write a diary. It does pay. THANK YOU for any referrals!

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This week’s sex diary! If you liked it, please recommend it on Facebook/Tumblr/anywhere. And remember:

Would you like to take part in the glorious tradition that is the New York Magazine sex diaries? Just send an e-mail to sexdiaries@nymag.com with your contact information and why you think you’d make a good diarist. If you’ve got what it takes, we’ll be in touch!

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Call for submissions: Salacious #2 (queer feminist sex art & literature)

—————— CALL FOR SALACIOUS #2 ——————

—- VOYEURISM —-

DEADLINE: MARCH 10, 2011
Email us at submit@salaciousmagazine.com

definition of voyeurism

What does it mean to be a voyeur? We here at SALACIOUS think that in this new-fangled century there are a myriad of ways to be voyeuristic, and we want you to show and tell us how voyeurism gets you hot! Submit your comics, illustrations, photos, and stories highlighting how you get your voyeur on.

Please keep the below specs and mission statement in mind 
when you submit to us.

Specs for illustrations and comics:

Black and White or Full Color

8.5×11

No bleeds
(Please leave at least .5 inches of white border)

300 dpi

JPEG, PDF, TIFF, PSD

Specs for the written word:

Maximum 2,500 words

Short stories, poetry, and more accepted

Most submissions will be illustrated in some capacity by an artist-on-call.

Specs for Photography:

Black and White or Full Color

8.5×11

No bleeds
(Please leave at least .5 inches of white border)

300 dpi

JPEG, PDF, TIFF, PSD

Please keep the following Content Mission in mind 
should you choose to submit something to SALACIOUS:

  1. SALACIOUS is queer. While we’re not going to tell you what queer should mean to you, please keep this in mind as you compose your work.

  2. SALACIOUS is feminist. We consider reproductions of typically sexist, misogynist sex and sexuality offensive, unimportant, and not worthy of printing.

  3. SALACIOUS is anti-racist. We reject racist representations, insist on a multi-racial editorial board and contributor base, and seek to understand racism, like sexism, in relation to local and international inequities of power.

  4. SALACIOUS is aimed at titillation, as much as it is aimed at high art. Please therefore submit work you are nothing but deeply proud of. Just because it’s naughty doesn’t mean it has to be poorly done.
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Call for Submissions: 100 Words Anthology

THE DEADLINE for the 100 Words Anthology has been extended until March 1, 2011. Here’s the original call:

It’s notoriously difficult to write about sex. As even the most inventive writers struggle to capture its utter fabulousness, this most visceral and energized experience keeps looping around to its own staid, repetitive language. There are varying levels of heat (hot, sizzling, torrid); a running X-rated soundtrack (moan, scream, grunt) and the inevitable parade of pounded, perspiring and manipulated body parts (breasts, butts, rods). If you’ve read one (jerk, cum, rigid), you’ve pretty much read them all (suck, damp, spurt). The poems range from the dryly clinical (vagina, testicles, areola) to the unintentionally comedic (dripping honey pot, throbbing member).

So how do we re-energize and reinvent the sex poem? We identify the 100 words that are the most blatant offenders, and we declare them off limits. That forces us to examine the act without the customary escape routes, those words that say “I don’t know how to say this, so I’m saying this.”

Here’s a chance to muse upon the loss (or rediscovery) of your virginity, the best or worst you’ve ever had, illicit sex, purchased sex, sex toys, illegal sex, teenage sex, geezer sex, sex in the news, dangerous liaisons and fumbling first attempts. Use your imagination, but don’t use THOSE WORDS—and be sure to look for unexpected entry points (oops) into your work. Utilize persona, shifting perspective, nonce forms, etc. No scratch-and-sniff, please.

For a list of the forbidden words, please email 100Wrds@gmail.com. Submissions will be accepted at the same address. Please, no more than three poems per submission, and no previously published poems. No publisher has yet been wooed for this project, but the search is on.

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Exclusive shot from Rough Sex 2: Madison bakes a cake for her Mistress’ birthday, and her Mistress, Dylan, rewards her in some unexpected ways. Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 2 will be released by Vivid on August 23. More photos to come, so check back!

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Exclusive shot from Rough Sex 2: Madison bakes a cake for her Mistress’ birthday, and her Mistress, Dylan, rewards her in some unexpected ways. Tristan Taormino’s Rough Sex 2 will be released by Vivid on August 23. More photos to come, so check back!

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