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rkb:

It’s free books for Amazon reviewers time! Especially after reading this mindblowing post by Cathy Yardley, I know that for me this is essential to get Amazon to pay attention to my books. I’ll have 30 copies of Twice the Pleasure: Bisexual Women’s Erotica to give away. You MUST have made a paid purchase from Amazon.com and be in the US and promise to review it within 6 weeks of receiving it. In return, I’ll send you a free, autographed copy before it’s in stores! Email biwomenantho at gmail.com with “Amazon” in the subject line and your name and mailing address in the body. A few people have requested books already so the next 25 or so of you to request get a free copy. And of course media, bloggers, etc., can send me a request and I’ll have my publisher send you a copy, just tell me who you write for. THANK YOU! I’m all the more determined to make this year a good one for my books so I get to keep on doing this for a long, long time.
More info:
Table of Contents:
Introduction: Hot Bi Babes: A Both/And Approach to Bisexuality
1 Percent Adaptable  Nicole Wolfe
The Wife  Kay Jaybee
Operetta  Jean Roberta
Lifeline  Emerald
Goa  Dena Hankins
The Robber Girl  Lori Selke
The Adulterers  Penelope Friday
Sunset  Logan Belle
Break  Cheryl B.
In the Mirror  Valerie Alexander
Glitter in the Gutter  Giselle Renarde
Seduction Dance  Dorothy Freed
A Little Fun  Rachel Kramer Bussel
Trinity  Jordana Winters
Meeting at the Hole in the Wall  Aimee Pearl
The State  Tahira Iqbal
Strange Status Quo  Salome Wilde
Walking the Walk  Shanna Germain
ReGretable Circumstances  Lane
Right-Red Flagging  Sinclair Sexsmith
Page of Wands  Cheyenne Blue
What I Want, What I Need  Jacqueline Applebee
Introduction: Hot Bi Babes: A Both/And Approach to Bisexuality
Woody Allen once famously said, “Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.” As a bisexual woman, I can attest that this is not necessarily true. Bisexuality is more than just a math equation and cannot be so easily categorized or summarized. Identifying as bi, or being attracted to or engaging in sex with a variety of genders, or whatever version of something approximating those states of being , is the theme of this anthology, and in many ways, the term is actually a lot broader than that dual opportunity. This is not a book about choosing either/or, male or female, or simply one of each. It’s not about narrowing gender down to one size fits all, but about expanding our options, to a both/and approach to how we view and cultivate our sexuality. It’s a welcoming, inclusive definition that welcomes all comers—pun fully intended.
I wanted this book, while fictional and focused on the erotic aspects of bisexual women’s lives, to explore as wide a swatch of “bisexual” as possible. That means that some of the best stories here don’t mention the word bisexual at all; they don’t have to, because their bi angle, their queerness, is embedded—and bedded—in the story. The characters are living it, rather than identifying with it; the sexual exploration and attraction, the experience and movement, are more important than what anyone wants to call it.
The large majority of the submissions I received for this book were about women having sex with women, which makes sense in the context of a culture that still privileges heterosexual identity over any other kind. Even in an era of so-called lesbian and bisexual chic, there’s still plenty of discomfort with the fluidity with which many women view their sexuality. Shifting away from a purely heterosexual mindset forces women to grapple with the ways we differ from mainstream society, even one that is becoming much more open and knowledgeable about the varieties of queer life. The first time we dare to dip our toes—or other body parts—into the world of sex with other women is often momentous. Many of us will find the character of Laura, in Nicole Wolfe’s opening story, “1 Percent Adaptable,” familiar. Laura at first protests Marie’s advances, warning her that she’s not gay, not bi, until she listens to her body and follows its yearnings. “Laura was shocked that the kiss had surprised her, considering what had just happened between her legs. She let her lips caress Marie’s. She dared to let her tongue out to play. She risked letting her hands tickle Marie’s hips and backside,” Wolfe writes.
But I didn’t want this to simply be a first-time bi-curious tentative collection, but a robust one exploring the intimacy of life as a woman interested in men and women. That’s why I wanted stories that asked questions like the ones in Jacqueline Applebee’s closing tale, “What I Want, What I Need:” “I’d been out as a lesbian since I was twenty-three. Why was I suddenly spending time with a straight man? Why was I enjoying it so much? Had I really been a lesbian at all, or had I been lying to myself for the past twenty years?”
There are girlfriends and wives, husbands and boyfriends, first dates, threesomes and much more here. There’s daring and adventure, women taking risks by stepping outside their comfort zones, whether it’s by surrendering to a bodyguard in “The State,” by Tahira Iqbal, or confronting “The Wife” of a male lover in Kay Jaybee’s story, only to be confronted right back. The women you’ll read about are attracted to strong women like “The Robber Girl” in Lori Selke’s story, and men who surprise them with their sensitivity, as in my story, “A Little Fun.”
There’s also kink, if that’s what you’re looking for. In Cheryl B.’s “The Break,” spanking becomes a way for two exes to reconnect and revive the passion between them, while Sinclair Sexsmith takes us inside a gay bar and then home with a boy her protagonist has met there, one who may or may not know her true gender, in “Right-Red Flagging.” The protagonist of “Seduction Dance” is under the watchful eye of her master when she finds a new female plaything for her to command and seduce. Gender is played with, fucked with, and grappled with as well in Giselle Renarde’s “Glitter in the Gutter,” in which the female partner of a male cross-dresser encourages his interest when he fears he’s crossed a line and doesn’t want to live in the new, judgmental world he’s stepped into. Aimee Pearl writes in “Meeting at the Hole in the Wall, “Chivalry is dead, and I want to writhe naked on its grave.”
These are celebratory, sexy stories, but, all apologies to Mr. Allen, they are more complex than a view of bisexuality simply as “twice as much” to offer. I like to think of them as both/and stories that, collectively, offer a look at the ways bisexuality, queerness and lesbianism affect us while recognizing that there’s no monolithic typical bisexual. We are multifaceted, full of desires that can’t be contained in a single, simplistic category. We are hungry, horny, mischievous, naughty, provocative and, yes, curious. We may think we know what we want, only to keep on surprising ourselves just when we think we have it all figured out. We are open to a wide range of sexual possibilities, whether they exist in our heads or beyond.
I hope you’ll enjoy the twenty-two stories presented here, and that they serve as erotic catalysts, no matter how you identify.
Rachel Kramer Bussel
New York City

I’ve got a butch-on-fag story in here! 

rkb:

It’s free books for Amazon reviewers time! Especially after reading this mindblowing post by Cathy Yardley, I know that for me this is essential to get Amazon to pay attention to my books. I’ll have 30 copies of Twice the Pleasure: Bisexual Women’s Erotica to give away. You MUST have made a paid purchase from Amazon.com and be in the US and promise to review it within 6 weeks of receiving it. In return, I’ll send you a free, autographed copy before it’s in stores! Email biwomenantho at gmail.com with “Amazon” in the subject line and your name and mailing address in the body. A few people have requested books already so the next 25 or so of you to request get a free copy. And of course media, bloggers, etc., can send me a request and I’ll have my publisher send you a copy, just tell me who you write for. THANK YOU! I’m all the more determined to make this year a good one for my books so I get to keep on doing this for a long, long time.

More info:

Table of Contents:

Introduction: Hot Bi Babes: A Both/And Approach to Bisexuality

1 Percent Adaptable  Nicole Wolfe

The Wife  Kay Jaybee

Operetta  Jean Roberta

Lifeline  Emerald

Goa  Dena Hankins

The Robber Girl  Lori Selke

The Adulterers  Penelope Friday

Sunset  Logan Belle

Break  Cheryl B.

In the Mirror  Valerie Alexander

Glitter in the Gutter  Giselle Renarde

Seduction Dance  Dorothy Freed

A Little Fun  Rachel Kramer Bussel

Trinity  Jordana Winters

Meeting at the Hole in the Wall  Aimee Pearl

The State  Tahira Iqbal

Strange Status Quo  Salome Wilde

Walking the Walk  Shanna Germain

ReGretable Circumstances  Lane

Right-Red Flagging  Sinclair Sexsmith

Page of Wands  Cheyenne Blue

What I Want, What I Need  Jacqueline Applebee

Introduction: Hot Bi Babes: A Both/And Approach to Bisexuality

Woody Allen once famously said, “Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.” As a bisexual woman, I can attest that this is not necessarily true. Bisexuality is more than just a math equation and cannot be so easily categorized or summarized. Identifying as bi, or being attracted to or engaging in sex with a variety of genders, or whatever version of something approximating those states of being , is the theme of this anthology, and in many ways, the term is actually a lot broader than that dual opportunity. This is not a book about choosing either/or, male or female, or simply one of each. It’s not about narrowing gender down to one size fits all, but about expanding our options, to a both/and approach to how we view and cultivate our sexuality. It’s a welcoming, inclusive definition that welcomes all comers—pun fully intended.

I wanted this book, while fictional and focused on the erotic aspects of bisexual women’s lives, to explore as wide a swatch of “bisexual” as possible. That means that some of the best stories here don’t mention the word bisexual at all; they don’t have to, because their bi angle, their queerness, is embedded—and bedded—in the story. The characters are living it, rather than identifying with it; the sexual exploration and attraction, the experience and movement, are more important than what anyone wants to call it.

The large majority of the submissions I received for this book were about women having sex with women, which makes sense in the context of a culture that still privileges heterosexual identity over any other kind. Even in an era of so-called lesbian and bisexual chic, there’s still plenty of discomfort with the fluidity with which many women view their sexuality. Shifting away from a purely heterosexual mindset forces women to grapple with the ways we differ from mainstream society, even one that is becoming much more open and knowledgeable about the varieties of queer life. The first time we dare to dip our toes—or other body parts—into the world of sex with other women is often momentous. Many of us will find the character of Laura, in Nicole Wolfe’s opening story, “1 Percent Adaptable,” familiar. Laura at first protests Marie’s advances, warning her that she’s not gay, not bi, until she listens to her body and follows its yearnings. “Laura was shocked that the kiss had surprised her, considering what had just happened between her legs. She let her lips caress Marie’s. She dared to let her tongue out to play. She risked letting her hands tickle Marie’s hips and backside,” Wolfe writes.

But I didn’t want this to simply be a first-time bi-curious tentative collection, but a robust one exploring the intimacy of life as a woman interested in men and women. That’s why I wanted stories that asked questions like the ones in Jacqueline Applebee’s closing tale, “What I Want, What I Need:” “I’d been out as a lesbian since I was twenty-three. Why was I suddenly spending time with a straight man? Why was I enjoying it so much? Had I really been a lesbian at all, or had I been lying to myself for the past twenty years?”

There are girlfriends and wives, husbands and boyfriends, first dates, threesomes and much more here. There’s daring and adventure, women taking risks by stepping outside their comfort zones, whether it’s by surrendering to a bodyguard in “The State,” by Tahira Iqbal, or confronting “The Wife” of a male lover in Kay Jaybee’s story, only to be confronted right back. The women you’ll read about are attracted to strong women like “The Robber Girl” in Lori Selke’s story, and men who surprise them with their sensitivity, as in my story, “A Little Fun.”

There’s also kink, if that’s what you’re looking for. In Cheryl B.’s “The Break,” spanking becomes a way for two exes to reconnect and revive the passion between them, while Sinclair Sexsmith takes us inside a gay bar and then home with a boy her protagonist has met there, one who may or may not know her true gender, in “Right-Red Flagging.” The protagonist of “Seduction Dance” is under the watchful eye of her master when she finds a new female plaything for her to command and seduce. Gender is played with, fucked with, and grappled with as well in Giselle Renarde’s “Glitter in the Gutter,” in which the female partner of a male cross-dresser encourages his interest when he fears he’s crossed a line and doesn’t want to live in the new, judgmental world he’s stepped into. Aimee Pearl writes in “Meeting at the Hole in the Wall, “Chivalry is dead, and I want to writhe naked on its grave.”

These are celebratory, sexy stories, but, all apologies to Mr. Allen, they are more complex than a view of bisexuality simply as “twice as much” to offer. I like to think of them as both/and stories that, collectively, offer a look at the ways bisexuality, queerness and lesbianism affect us while recognizing that there’s no monolithic typical bisexual. We are multifaceted, full of desires that can’t be contained in a single, simplistic category. We are hungry, horny, mischievous, naughty, provocative and, yes, curious. We may think we know what we want, only to keep on surprising ourselves just when we think we have it all figured out. We are open to a wide range of sexual possibilities, whether they exist in our heads or beyond.

I hope you’ll enjoy the twenty-two stories presented here, and that they serve as erotic catalysts, no matter how you identify.

Rachel Kramer Bussel

New York City

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Call for Submissions: Huddle: Sex with Sporty Queers

Huddle: Sex With Sporty Queers

Editor: Angela Tavares
Publisher: Go Deeper Press
Deadline: April 30, 2013
Payment & rights: $25 per story; first international electronic rights

Jocks. Sure, you may have hated them back in high school, especially if you were queer, and that’s okay. But think back. Did you not find yourself admiring them from afar: that sinew of muscle in their calves or stomachs, the way they embraced a good sweat, their fists in the air after they contributed to a hometown win? Or maybe you were a jock, and if this is the case, you know exactly what can happen in those locker rooms, on those long bus rides to a hotel three states away, or at a bar when you run into members of the team you’re playing tomorrow in the big game.

Love them or hate them, jocks are…oh…they’re hot, and the editors of Go Deeper Press are looking for exciting, inventive, erotic stories for our fiction anthology “Huddle: Sex With Sporty Queers.” “Huddle” will be edited by Angela Tavares (rubthis.blogspot.com).

The deadline is April 30, 2013 (midnight EST).

Fictional stories only, please. We buy first international electronic rights. Authors will be paid $25 per story, but as Go Deeper Press grows in size, our listed authors will receive rises and royalties. We’re after stories from 1,500 to 4,000 words.

Please submit your story in a double-spaced Microsoft Word document, using a 12-point serif font, such as Georgia or Times New Roman. One inch margins, please.  If you are using a pen name, include both your real name and pen name in your email cover letter and on the manuscript itself.  Please also include a list of previous publications. If you are a new writer, let us know that you are committed to editing your work.

Finally, please submit your polished story, with the anthology name in the subject line, to submissions@godeeperpress.com.

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What happens to kinky sex if you no longer feel shame?

You explore different kinds of pleasure

And you start finding new forbidden things to play out

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Author and sex educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of December 3, 2012: “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?”

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Follow this link to read my latest Eden Fantasys review on the erotica collection “Best Lesbian Erotica 2012” Edited by Kathleen Warnock and Guest Edited by Sinclair Sexsmith. A wonderful, wonderful kinky, queer, diverse erotica collection!

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rkb:

I’m still on the hunt for sex diarists and I’d love it if you’d pass this on to anyone you know who might be good for this series - the friend who always has great sex and dating stories and wants to anonymous share them! Am on the hunt for sex diarists, gay, straight, bi, single, married, in NYC or not! And it pays. Email sexdiaries at nymag.com and tell me why you’d make a good sex diarist and I’ll send you details. Thanks to all you’ve given me some great leads!

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Call for Submissions: Sex in NYC

Sex in New York City: Tales of Pleasure and Perversity in the Big Apple
Editor: Ralph Greco, Jr.
Publisher:  Sizzler Editions
Deadline: April 1, 2012
Payment: $25, paid on publication; First North American Anthology Rights

We are looking for stories from new and established authors celebrating one of the busiest-and sexiest-cities on earth. Pulsating with a vibrancy unlike any other location how can one think about New York City without thinking of the orgasm-like rise of steam shooting-up through manholes, men and women jostling their bodies oh-so-close in the dirty bowels of subway cars, of the bright lights and the limos whisking couples who knows where for God knows what?

Writers who live in or have been to The Big Apple now get their chance to take a big bite out of it in any way they choose, using the full expanse of this amazing city’s locations, from Times Square, to the The Village, to clear across to one of the vibrant ethnic enclaves of neighboring boroughs like Brooklyn of Queens.

Sex in New York City, like all Sizzler Editions, is open to submissions featuring all sexual and gender orientations. We seek stories with whatever kind of sex seems true to NYC…and you. From tender romances to the hardest kinks: a naughty canoodle in Saint Patrick’s Cathedral to a high-class dom/client meet in an upper east-side apartment; everything is permissible just as long as NYC is the backdrop. And the folks populating your tales should be as vibrant and unique as this city they have come to play in.

Guidelines and submission details at:
erotica-readers.com/ERA/AR/Sex_In_New_York_City.htm

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Call for Presenters: Lesbian Sex Mafia in NYC

Call for Presenters

Please circulate widely!
Do you have a kinky skill you’d like to share, a BDSM concept you’d like to teach, or a great idea for a leather panel you’d like to organize and speak on? The Lesbian Sex Mafia in New York City, the oldest continuously running women’s BDSM support and education groups in the country, is actively seeking women & trans folks who are identified with the lesbian community to present for our 2012 workshop calendar. Past topics have included piercing and stapling, M/s and D/s relationships, fisting, sensation play, takedowns, single tails, and more.

We meet monthly on the 3rd Friday at the LGBT Community Center in NYC and would gladly include out of town presenters who will be in town on that date.

If you’d like to present for LSM, simply download the Presenter Guidelines which includes information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation, and fill out the online Presentation Proposal form.

About the Lesbian Sex Mafia

LSM is a support and information group for all women 18 years of age or older, including transexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women and all female born transgender people who feel they have a connection with and respect for the women’s community, and who are interested in fantasy and role playing, bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, costumes, alternate gender identities and uninhibited sexual expression in a safe, sane, consensual and confidential way. We are not a social service agency; however, we are interested in providing information, encouragement and general support. Our principles are few but basic: confidentiality, consensuality, safety and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose. lesbiansexmafia.org for more information.

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Kristin and Danielle of everyoneisgay.com fame mentioned this wheel diagram (which is from Gayle Rubin’s article “Thinking Sex”) when they visited here. Society’s conceptions of “acceptable sex” are placed on the inside— on the outside is “unacceptable sex.” It’s pretty interesting to see visualized the huge number of ways we judge people based on sexual proclivities.

oqueerwc:

Kristin and Danielle of everyoneisgay.com fame mentioned this wheel diagram (which is from Gayle Rubin’s article “Thinking Sex”) when they visited here. Society’s conceptions of “acceptable sex” are placed on the inside— on the outside is “unacceptable sex.” It’s pretty interesting to see visualized the huge number of ways we judge people based on sexual proclivities.

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A Love Letter to Femmes - by Sinclair Sexsmith

Maria See put the original call out for the Femmethology literally years ago, and ever since I first saw it I knew I wanted to contribute something to this unique anthology on femme identity. But what? I didn’t feel like I could necessarily speak from a place of authority on What Femme Is, there are hundreds – thousands! – of versions of femme, and no matter what I know about femme or how many femmes I’ve interacted with, I am an observer, a witness of femme, I don’t feel like I create it myself.

So what would I write?

I wrote a few pieces, brainstormed, but nothing I really loved. Nothing really got to the heart of what I was trying to say, which was … what? I wasn’t sure.

But it hit me on the very last day the editors were accepting submissions, and I sat down and wrote this Love Letter in one long sentence, and spent the rest of the day editing and polishing. I’m not going to reproduce the text here (you’ll have to buy the book for that) but I will present you, here, with a recording of me reading the love letter that appears in Visible: A Femmethology Volume Two.

Hope you enjoy it.

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Sex diarists wanted!

rkb:

I still need New Yorkers (because it’s for nymag.com) to write sex diaries - you anonymously detail your sex life for a week, get paid $50. Know anyone? Feel free to pass on. Thank you! No requirements except there be some kind of sex going on. Write me here or at sexdiaries at nymag.com for details. Thanks!